I never really thought about why I was single until one day, someone asked me, and I was stuck. I didn’t really have a simple answer. I didn’t even really know where to start. I just sat there, dumbfounded. I thought to myself, “I guess I need to think about how to articulate this in case I’m asked again.”
I continued living my life as I normally do and tried to feel where a relationship would fit and what I would want in a partner and why. It wasn’t easy. I’m very busy and I’m also very content. I meditated and asked the question, “why am I single?”.
After a few days of listening for the answer, this is what I realized:
I get a lot of 5D (spiritual) assignments that require me to use my spiritual gifts to assist people, some I know and most are strangers. It is my priority to stay in spiritual alignment regardless of who is in my life and in what capacity they are in it. Sometimes, 3D relationships and all the pettiness that goes into dating is just a big distraction. I believe the person for me will gravitate towards me and enhance my vibe rather than cause interference with my energetic frequency. Most men don’t even know what I’m talking about, so they could never really support me on this journey. Besides that, being whole and knowing that I have all I need inside of me, changes my perspective of relationships. I have already been married and divorced. I have two children. I don’t feel like I’m lacking or need to pursue anything. This physical life is temporary anyway. “The One” is a relative illusion based on where we are at any given point in our lives. For me, there are more important things to focus on…..like fulfilling my divine purpose in life and raising the vibration of this planet.
If I ever have a King, he will be on the same mission that I am on, or at least, he will understand that every now and then I have to put on my cape and channel someone’s ancestor or transitioned loved one. I may see him unexpectedly through my third eye and have to call him out of nowhere to deliver a message from the Divine. He may have a thought that I hear or feel from miles away and I am instructed to help keep him on course with his Divine purpose. This is my life. This is what I do, with or without him in it. He has to be willing to go deep within himself and maintain his own connection and alignment to Source, while giving me the trust, respect, and freedom to fulfill my 5D to-do list. Obviously, I would love to support him with his own life mission and journey to ascension. It would give me no greater pleasure than to be the Queen to my King and give him the trust, respect, and freedom to fulfill his own destiny while he does the same for me.
If he is moving through life aligned with his higher self, and I am too, not only could we manifest some amazing stuff together, it would be the most exhilarating, soul quenching relationship ever!