Ever since I changed my perspective and chose to focus on what I want instead of what I don’t want, the only thing that shows up is what I want. 💯
Now, I repel BS instead of attracting it.
I encourage you to STOP complaining about who isn’t doing what, who is messing up, and who isn’t measuring up to your standards.
JUST. STOP. NOW.
Instead, show some love and appreciation for the people that you’re not interested in, but are still good men/women. They may not be perfect or meet all the requirements on your wish list, but the fact that you know them shows that good people still exist and you aren’t completely isolated on BS Island.
Whining, complaining, fussing, and nagging is not appealing or attractive….to most people.
Just think about it:
You walk into a club dressed your best, feeling good and sexy. The vibe is right and the music is on point. You have a friend as your side kick. Everything is right. You enter slowly and take it all in….then you notice Eye Candy at 2:00. You glance, then watch, and try not to stare. You work your way over and just as you’re about to approach, you overhear Eye Candy’s conversation with friends. Although it’s rude, ear hustling gives you pertinent information; Eye Candy is a grumpy Gus with a funky attitude!
Now the question is, do you really want to devote energy into trying to turn Eye Candy’s frown upside down, or would you rather keep browsing and focus your attention on someone with a more pleasant demeanor?
Everyone wants to be Eye Candy, but every piece of Eye Candy doesn’t have to be a grumpy Gus.
Show your sweet side and you’ll attract everything sweet! ❤🍯🐝🌟💫👑